How to Create Sexual Chemistry with a Woman in TWO steps

Ah! This is one of the most favorite subjects of mine. I fumbled in this very stage for a long time. I’m not an expert yet but yes, I believe I can give some really useful dating advice on the subject that is, how to create instant sexual chemistry with a woman.

Over the years that I have been in the field, sarging women and finding out what worked and what didn’t work, I found that two things worked in creating that mysterious sexual chemistry with a woman very successfully. But before I tell them to you, I would ask you to keep an open mind and not question it, because you might be conditioned to think in a particular way by the society or maybe you were a student of some socially challenged creepy pick up artist. Just try to take in and assimilate what they are for, rather than trying to find faults with it.

Okay, the two basic steps that can help you create instant sexual chemistry with a woman are as follows.

Dominant Fun – What I mean by the term is women should be CHALLENGED and women should HAVE FUN while they are being challenged. Are you getting me? And that’s why, teasing works so well in creating that instant chemistry. What is chemistry by the way? Chemistry is when the person has crossed the line and you are comfortable with it. You are basically enjoying it. Suppose, you are talking with a man for a few minutes now and when you something very obvious, he quips, “wow! You are a genius”. He is that person who just entered your personal bubble and you are enjoying it. It just creates a sense of comfortable tension between you two. Occasional teasing and playfulness is good in keeping up the chemistry than continuous teasing.

There are two ways you can have fun. One that shows confidence and sense of humor, and thus interesting; another that shows ‘seeking approval’ attitude and thus, not interesting. We are talking about the first one here. Occasional sprinkling of this confident playfulness is what keeps that ON between you.

Sexual Flirting – Now listen to me very carefully. Men DO flirt but most of them actually flirt in the lines of ‘I’m interested but I’m not so sure if you will like me’.

If you approach a woman and ask her if you can buy her a drink, then you are actually showing sexual interest, aren’t you? But the problem here is that you are not being confident! Now take the example below.

Let’s say a female coworker is getting inside an elevator and you give her the pass. Check the conversation below:

You: Please…
Her: Wow! You are a gentleman (a little tease)
You: Don’t be mistaken mam, I’m just trying to see your cute little butt behind.
Her: Oh! That took a long time to build.
You: That’s why I’m being a gentleman

In this example, you saw how he showed interest but he was also confident. That’s what impresses women. You should be able to FLIRT WITH HER but you should do it from a strong position, not from a submissive downhill stand. Women actually love when they are hit on by a confident ‘high value’ man. If you are really attractive and high value, you might scare them if you approach them VERY DIRECT. But if you establish some comfort and acceptance initially, then she can take your flirting and also enjoy that. That creates the chemistry.

But here’s an important note. It’s always better to just cut the nonsense and convey your interest in the most unassuming way as possible. Like in the elevator situation, that was fun but she might not take it to heart. And you want her to take you seriously, don’t you? So, the best way to flirt is to be absolutely serious and not add any playfulness to it. It makes her think about it later if you do it right, takes it to a more serious level and that’s how you actually get a girlfriend.

Moreover, when you combine that superficial dominant fun with intense sexual flirtation in the undertone, that’s when it creates the right sexual chemistry with a woman.

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