Approaching a woman that you don’t know on the streets can seem very intimidating and difficult, but not if you know what you are doing. If you see a hot girl walk down on the street and want to get her number, it’s important that you know how to go about doing so. There are a lot of different methods that you can use, some of which are more effective than others. A lot of guys completely fail at this because they always take the wrong approach.
Using eye contact when approaching girls
One very important part of approaching girls on the street involves using eye contract. Using eye contact with girls properly can be a little tricky, because you can come off as creepy if you aren’t careful. It is important that you know exactly what to do with your eyes when you are going up to a girl you don’t know on the street.
When you see a girl that you find attractive, the very first thing you should do is to make eye contact with her. By making eye contact with the girl you are interested in, you are establishing that you are self-confident. Most guys who lack confidence tend not to make eye contact with the people they are talking to, especially if it’s a girl they find attractive.
If the girl meets up and gazes back at you, make sure to hold your eye contact and give her a relaxed but confident smile. This is an excellent way to make a good first impression with any girl you encounter. It will also tell the girl that you are a friendly person and make her more comfortable instantly. You definitely want to make it your goal to put the girl you are trying to get at ease, and this is a great way to do that. If the girl holds eye contact with you, or even looks away and then right back at you, she is showing that she is interested in having you approach.
You never want to hesitate or wait for any other signs that the girl is interested, because the moment will quickly pass and you’ll be completely out of luck. If the girl does not hold your gaze when you look at her, chances are she isn’t interested. The fact is that there’s nothing you can do if she isn’t interested in you, but using contact can be a good way to tell if she is. Eye contact is an incredibly important part of flirting and finding out whether or not someone is interested in you.
Approaching a girl with total confidence
If you really want to impress a girl that you approach on the street, it is incredibly important that you are completely confident. Approaching a woman with confidence means that you have excellent posture (stand up straight), make eye contact, and don’t forget to smile. All of these things are key elements of confidence, so you will need to keep that in mind. If you don’t come off as confident when you go up to a girl you find attractive, you don’t have a chance. Most girls can tell right away if a guy isn’t confident when they go up to them, which is why it’s so crucial that you do this.
Hesitating is the absolute worst thing that you can do when it comes to approaching a girl you don’t know on the street. You don’t want to be the kind of guy who shows any sort of hesitation when going up to a girl you want to get with. You should go up to her with the mentality that she is already interested in you, even if it turns out she isn’t. By walking up to a girl without even thinking about it, you will definitely come off as confident and therefore more attractive.
The truth is that most guys get very anxious when they see a girl they are attracted to on the street, and they don’t end up saying or doing anything. If you have any internal anxiety about talking to attractive girls you don’t know, it is going to show through. The first thing that you will need to do is to focus mentally and remove all negative thoughts from your mind. If even part of you is worrying about getting rejected, you are never going to get the girls you want.
Another very important aspect of confidence involves not fumbling over your words. If you want to get girls you don’t know to be interested in you right from the start, you will need to be as charming and smooth as possible with your words. You don’t want to keep stuttering or searching for words when you are talking, because it is going to be a huge turn off.
Stopping a girl on the street
Most guys who stop girls they are attracted to on the street have no idea what to do, and as a result they completely bomb. If you want to be as successful as possible with doing this, there are a few things you will need to know. There is no reason to limit yourself when it comes to where you approach girls. You don’t necessarily have to be in a bar or club to come up to a girl you find attractive and introduce yourself. But you will have to know how to go about coming up to a girl on the street without coming off like a creep or a weirdo.
While there is nothing wrong with stopping a girl on the street, it is important that you go about it the right way. Coming up to an attractive girl on the street is going to be different from if you were in a club or bar in a number of ways. You will want to put yourself directly in her path, which is around six to ten feet in front of her. By doing this you won’t startle her, but you will still be able to stop her momentum.
When you go up to a girl on the street, you will also need to look her in the eye so you make it clear that you are trying to get her attention. Raise your hand and putting it about a foot in front of you is a good way to reduce the tension immediately. All you have to do is simply say “Excuse me” and start the conversation, which we will discuss later.
You will want to think of stopping a cute girl on the street as being just like you were stopping someone you don’t know to ask for directions. The primary difference here is that instead of trying to get directions from them, you are trying to have a friendly conversation (which will hopefully lead to a date.)
It is important to remember that approaching a girl on the street doesn’t have to be awkward as long as you don’t give off any creepy vibes. Lots of guys fail at this precisely because they were just too awkward and didn’t know what to say/do. The more you learn about how to approach a girl on the street, the better your chances will be of getting her interested in you. Your goal here shouldn’t be to make her fall head over heels in love with you, but rather just for her to want to get to know you better.
What to say to the girl you’ve just met
It is very important that you know what to say to the girl you have stopped on the street so you can increase your chances of getting a date. You will definitely want to keep things positive and light when you first approach her. Start having some playful conversation with the cute girl you have just met. If you aren’t comfortable going right into banter with a girl you have just met, you can say whatever you feel comfortable with. There is always the compliment approach, which simply involves paying the girl a compliment on some aspect of her appearance.
A lot of guys believe that they are able to completely entrance a girl just with a single opening line, but they usually don’t. Instead of trying to use some cheesy and ineffective pickup line, it is important that you start with something basic but nice.
The first thing that you say to a girl that you meet for the very first time will be crucial, so you don’t want to mess it up. If you want to make a great first impression, you should always be ready with something interesting and playful to say as an opening line. Whatever you do, don’t go for any of the cheesy pickup lines that so many guys seem to use these days. The best possible thing that you can do when meeting a new girl is to be genuine and confident instead of trying to seem cool, because she will see right through that instantly.
There’s nothing wrong with coming up to a girl and just saying something like “Hi there, wow you are really beautiful.” Starting off with a compliment is always a good idea, and it’s not creepy at all. Typically if a girl is into you, she will respond with “Thank you” and give a big smile. It can be somewhat difficult to tell whether or not a girl is into you right away, but you should be able to make a determination fairly early on into the conversation.
If you stop a girl on the street and she isn’t into you, she will probably just keep walking. If she stops in her tracks and smiles at you, you’re most likely good to continue on. A lot of guys have problems with taking a hint, and you don’t want to be one of them. It is incredibly important that you are able to pick up on basic social cues so that you don’t end up making a fool of yourself. Some girls are harder to read than others, but most will make it fairly obvious if they aren’t interested with their body language alone.
Don’t over think what you say to a girl that you see on the street or at a bar or club, because this can trip you up as well. You don’t want to just blurt out the first thing that comes to mind, but you also shouldn’t spend twenty minutes mulling it over in your head. Let your opening line flow naturally from a place of sheer confidence. If you are really confident in yourself, you should have no problem with this whatsoever.
If you are going to approach a girl you don’t know on the street or anywhere else for that matter, you will want to make a great first impression. If you mess up your opening line, it can be very difficult to recover. This is why you should put a little bit of thought into what you are going to say, but don’t overanalyze.
Using your Attitude to win a Cute Girl over
Believe it or not, you can win over a cute girl that you see on the street simply by having the right attitude. It is important to keep in mind that the girls you talk to are probably going to forget most of what you say to them within just a few short hours. It is your attitude and how it manifests that will really win her over. It is going to be how you make the girl feel that is really going to clinch things. You will need to make it your goal to make her feel as good and special as possible, so she wants away remembering you in a very positive way.
Attitude is one thing that a lot of guys have major problems with. If you are trying too hard to get approval from the girl or make it obvious that you want a certain outcome, you are going to come across as insecure and pathetic. If you really want the girl you approach to like you, it’s essential that you create a positive vibe with your words and actions. You want the girl to feel positively about you, herself and the situation as a whole. A fun and care-free attitude can go a long way towards another encounter with a girl you find attraction.
The overall attitude that you have will show through in every aspect of your interaction with girls, which is why it’s so important that you have the right one. Guys who have the wrong kind of attitude are destined for failure when it comes to getting and keeping girls. It is important that you have a very positive attitude while still acknowledging the possibility of failure. The key here is to be hopeful and confident while not allowing your self-esteem to shatter into a thousand pieces if you are rejected.
You definitely don’t want to have too cocky of an attitude when you approach girls, whether it is on the street, in a bar or even at work. There is a big difference between cocky and confident. Guys who are really cocky come off as douches, and this is something that completely turns most girls off. Confidence isn’t something that you flaunt but rather something that is just naturally there. If you are truly confident with a good attitude, the girls you approach will be able to tell just from your body language.
Approaching a girl in a bar
There are many different things to consider when it comes to approaching a girl in a bar, and you will need to know all of them. Bars are very popular places for single guys to go to meet girls, whether they are looking for dates or just hook-ups. Before you toss yourself into this social environment, you will need to learn some of the basics. A lot of guys fail miserably at picking up girls in bars because they lacked some basic information that could have helped them out quite a bit.
One of the first things that you should keep in mind is to stand in a high traffic area of the bar. If you are standing where there are a lot of people gathered, you look like you are in the center of it all. You will also have a lot of women passing by you, which is a good thing for obvious reasons. The last thing you want to do is to put yourself in a dark corner like so many guys do. Whenever you go to a bar, make sure that you are always looking for the best spots. Then you will want to start making your rounds.
It is absolutely imperative that you approach women in a bar right away without hesitation and with the utmost confidence. Nothing good has ever come from hesitating when you see a pretty girl that you want to get to know better. Whatever you do, do not hesitate! The longer you wait to go over and introduce yourself, the higher the risk will be of another guy coming along and snatching her up. If you are a truly confident person, you will have no problem whatsoever going over to a cute girl in a bar right away. If you are nervous at all, just force yourself to do it. Once you are actually in front of her, the rest will quickly fall into place.
After you have approached a girl in a bar, you will obviously have to say something. The good news here is that it’s less about the words you use and more about the overall attitude that you convey. It is important that you smile, walk tall and say something funny and playful to her. It shouldn’t be your ultimate goal to completely dazzle her right away with some amazing pickup line that will make her fall at your feet. What you are really trying to do here is to get girls interested in you. The very first thing that you say to a girl in a bar should make her want to get to know you better.
Make sure that the girl you are interested in getting to know isn’t already talking to someone when you go up and say hello. You don’t want to interrupt her in the middle of a conversation, as this just comes off as rude. You could say something like “Hey, I just wanted to tell you that you’re very pretty.” You might just be surprised at how well this works.
It is also important that you maintain eye contact with the girl you are zeroing in on in a bar or club. You don’t want to stare at her in a creepy or weird way, but rather in a sort of “Hey, I notice you and you are my type” sort of way. If every time you make eye contact she is still smiling at you, chances are she is interested and you can approach. This is very important to keep in mind, because it could save you a lot of embarrassment in the future.
Another way of getting the attention of a cute girl in a bar or club is to write down a note that just says “Hi” on a cocktail napkin, and simply slide it over to her. This may seem a bit juvenile, but it’s something that a lot of girls think is cute. There is also the simple wave hello, which is both classic and effective. Don’t forget to give her a friendly smile along with your wave. Also, make sure that you are looking directly at her when waving at her so there is no mistaking who you are interested in.
You will definitely want to think about asking if you can buy her a drink and get to know her. A lot of guys simply offer to buy girls drinks, and as a result they end up spending money on someone who isn’t interested. When you add the “and get to know you” part, you will be able to effectively weed out the girls who just want to use you for free drinks.
Bars are great places to meet girls, but you will need to know how to operate smoothly within this particular social environment if you want to be effective. There are a lot of things that you need to know when it comes to approaching girls in bars and clubs, especially if you don’t want to make a fool out of yourself. It can be easy to make some very basic mistakes in this environment with girls if you don’t know what you are doing. As long as you keep all of these things in mind, you should do just fine.
Approaching a girl at Work
It is only natural to make friends and meet girls at your place of employment, but you will need to know how to go about approaching them properly. There are definitely right ways to do this and wrong ways, and it’s crucial that you get the necessary information. Approaching a girl at work can be fairly tricky and nerve racking, because if you screw it up you are going to have to see her every day. If there are any girls at your work that you have your eye on, you will need to know how to approach them properly.
There are a few basic things that you need to keep in mind when approaching a girl at work, such as being polite. You can start off by asking one of your co-workers a question about themselves, something that you’d genuinely like to know. The question that you ask should ideally spark a conversation. Women love it when a man takes an interest in them, so this is a great way to start. You could ask a girl at work what she likes to do in her free time, and hopefully it’s something you could do together.
After your first encounter with a girl at work, you don’t want to wait too long before initiating a second encounter. It’s important that you don’t come off as desperate, but you also want to let her know that you are definitely interested in her. A lot of guys wait too long for the second encounter out of a fear of coming off as clingy, and this can be a big mistake. When the second approach comes around, you can do whatever feels right and natural. There is no right way to move forward at this point. You have already approached her and got her interested in you.
One of the most important things to remember when it comes to approaching girls at work is that you don’t want to be too pushy. Girls deal with pushy guys all the time, so they tend not to have any patience at all for them. The trick is to let her know that you are interested without going overboard or acting aloof. The whole “hard to get” thing isn’t relevant anymore, so put it out of your mind. You obviously don’t want to smother her, but you also don’t want to go too long without interacting. Use your best judgement when it comes to how often you talk to the girls you are interested in.
Your physical appearance
Make sure that you take into consideration your physical appearance before you approach a girl on the street. If you are all sweaty and smelly from just coming back from the gym, you might want to rethink approaching a girl at all. It is important that you look good, which means you are well groomed and wearing nice clothes. You don’t have to be wearing a suit and tie or anything, but just make sure it’s not laundry day. A girl isn’t going to respond well to your flirtations if you don’t look good, so you will have to keep that in mind.
You might also want to take a look at your everyday physical appearance to see if any improvements can be made. Do you put product in your hair and style it? If not, you might want to consider doing so. These days lots of guys use hair styling product, and it can really enhance your overall look. If your wardrobe is outdated, it’s time to go to the mall. You can’t expect any girl to be genuinely interested in you if you don’t look very attractive.