Despite what the internet may say, squirting is definitely a very real thing! Unfortunately, many women never get to experience squirting and most don’t know how to make themselves squirt while masturbating. How do you know you’ll be able to squirt? Do you feel like peeing when you are close to reaching that nail-biting orgasm? Holding it down may seem like a terrible idea, but it can actually result in amazing pleasure. It may take some time to figure out what works for you, but here are a few key ways to make yourself squirt while masturbating.
What Is Squirting?
Before you can squirt, you need to know what squirting is. Many women believe that when they squirt during orgasm, they are actually releasing urine. That’s not impossible, but it is rare. Instead of urine you are actually releasing fluid from the Skene’s gland. This gland is right above the G-spot and is close to your bladder.
As the Skene’s gland is adequately stimulated, it fills up and then releases fluid through the urethra. Though the urethra is the same small tube that urine passes through, you’re not actually releasing urine. You might feel like you have to pee, but you’re not, you’re ejaculating.
Before You Masturbate, Get Ready
If you want to make yourself squirt while masturbating, you’re going to want to start by getting ready before the actual act. Several hours before you start masturbating, make sure to stay hydrated and drink a few glasses of water. Then right before you lie down or try to make yourself squirt, empty your bladder completely. It is also important to prep your space. If you’re going to masturbate in a bathtub or shower, you can bypass this step. However, if you want to squirt in bed, you may want to lay down some towels before getting started.
Once you’re ready, it is time to get comfortable. Make sure you aren’t going to be disturbed by anyone or anything and lay in bed or in the bathtub. Start by reading erotica, fantasizing, or even watching porn. You want to get yourself as aroused as possible. In order to actually squirt, you’re going to want to build up your arousal for at least 15 to 30 minutes. Don’t try to reach an actual orgasm just yet, but you can edge yourself or get close. Spend the majority of this time focusing on your clitoris. Stay away from penetrating yourself just yet.
How To Make Yourself Squirt While Masturbating
Once you’re feeling very aroused, you can start focusing on making yourself squirt as you masturbate. If you want to squirt, you’re going to need to find your G-spot. You’ll know when you’ve found it because it feels quite similar to a wet raspberry. Once you find your G-spot, slowly apply pressure. Pay attention to how this feels and experiment with applying more or less pressure. Most women actually find that using a lot of pressure feels best. Don’t be afraid to go hard with either your sex toy or your hands.
As you apply more pressure, you will be indirectly working and stimulating the Skene’s gland. As you do, you’ll bring yourself closer to squirting. Keep applying pressure and toying with pace. You may want to increase the speed of your thrusting with your sex toy or fingers as you up the pressure against the g-spot. The moment when you feel as if you’re going to ejaculate is paramount. It will feel like you have to pee, which can cause some women to clam up and not be able to squirt. Don’t worry, just embrace the feeling and let go. Soon you’ll feel a wonderful release and the feeling of a warm gush of liquid.
Keep in mind that while some women can climax and squirt at the same time, some women can squirt without achieving orgasm. Don’t worry if the two don’t always happen together. You can always stimulate a clitoral orgasm before or after you squirt.
Things To Keep In Mind
The first few times you try to make yourself squirt while masturbating you may find that the at is easier said than done. Don’t get down on yourself if you struggle to make yourself squirt. Simply focus on what’s pleasurable and discovering nuances and techniques that may make it happen for you eventually.
Another thing to note is that not every woman will squirt like a porn star. Every woman ejaculates in a different way. While some may shoot a stream across the room, others will simply gush or release a small trickle of fluid that leaks out without much force at all. All of these are completely normal and dependent on your body.
When it comes to squirting while masturbating, these tips will help but it is best to experiment and find what works for you personally!
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