If you want to get the most out of your dildo, you’re going to need to know how to use it to gain maximum pleasure. There is more to using a dildo than just the simple act of penetration. You need to know how to work your dildo to your benefit. Below, we’ve created a handy beginner’s guide on how to put your dildo to good use. From techniques to positions, you’ll soon unlock the secret to toe-curling dildo induced orgasms.
Choose The Right Dildo
Before you can use a dildo for maximum pleasure, you’re going to need to choose the right toy for the job. There are many different types of dildos on the market. Here are the most popular.
- Glass: Best for hard stimulation or temperature play.
- Silicone: Flexible and safe for easy penetration.
- Oversized: Give the feeling of stretching or being full.
- Suction cup: Gives the opportunity for you to ride your dildo or try more positions.
- Double-ended: Ideal for double penetration.
- Metal: Best for temperature play or hard stimulation.
- Non-realistic: Ideal for those who want to experiment with roleplay scenarios.
- Rabbit: Clitorial and g-spot stimulation at the same time.
There is no one size fits all dildo, so you may have to play around until you find the dildo that brings you the most pleasure and the best orgasm.
Getting Started with your Dildo: Warm Up the Vagina
One mistake people often make when using a dildo for pleasure is not giving themselves a chance to warm up the vagina. Much like with traditional sex, you’ll get the most pleasure if you take some time to set the mood and engage in some foreplay.
Close the blinds, light some candles, and get ready to have a bit of me-time. The more aroused you are before you begin, the easier it will be you to achieve a g-spot orgasm. Good ways to warm up the vagina and your sex-drive are:
- Using lubes (bonus points for warming or tingling lubes)
- Rubbing your clit
- Reading erotica
- Watching porn
- Touching yourself all over
- Engaging in foreplay with a lover or partner
It can be tempting to skip the warm-up process and dive right in, but this will result in a less intense orgasm. Give yourself a few minutes to get going and you’ll achieve true maximum pleasure.
Thrusting Techniques For Maximum Pleasure
Once you’ve warmed yourself up, you’ll want to try one (or a few) thrusting techniques to use your dildo to its full potential. You’ll have to spend some time experimenting with your dildo to find the technique is right for you. Hey, that’s even more fun for you along the way!
Shallow Thrusts
In your chosen position, use shallow thrusts to stimulate your g-spot while stimulating your clitoris. Shallow thrusts don’t go deep. You start slow and over-time build up speed by thrusting in and out of your vagina. This position works best if you’re on your back with your dildo in your primary hand. However, you can also go on all fours and use a suction cup dildo.
The short thrusts from this technique can stimulate your vaginal opening which gives you double the stimulation.
Deep Thrusts
Deep thrusts feel amazing. This consists of pushing the dildo all the way into your vagina and bringing it out again. For best results, start slowly and let yourself feel the fullness of the dildo inside of you. Eventually, work your way up to a more rapid motion. Deep thrusting stimulates the G-Spot and A-spot, which can help you to achieve a true g-spot orgasm. If you really want to give yourself maximum pleasure, play between deep and shallow thrusts.
Milk Your G-Spot
To milk your g-spot with your dildo, simply run the dildo across the top inside of your vagina and thrust just enough that you stimulate your g-spot in short rapid bursts. This is a great way to achieve squirting orgasms. All you have to do is be persistent and keep the same motion going. The g-spot isn’t difficult to find. All you have to do is angle your dildo towards your bladder and apply pressure with each new thrust.
Rotating Head
Another great way to use your dildo for maximum pleasure is by using the rotating head technique. Begin by inserting the dildo like normal at the point of your g-spot. Once there, begin twisting the dildo for internal stimulation. Rotating the dildo is a great way to get the pussy aroused and ready to cum. You can also try inserting the dildo and then twisting right at the entrance of the vagina. Thrust it in when you feel ready.
The Best Dildo Positions
In order to really get the most from your dildo, you’ll need to be in the best position for you. After all, even the best thrusting technique won’t matter if you’re in a comfortable position. What are the best dildo positions?
On Your Back
With your legs bent up or in the air, inch forward and push the dildo inside of you while on your back, You can also twist to one side and insert the dildo while on your side which will make your vagina feel slightly tighter.
On All Fours
If you can secure your dildo to your headboard or a wall, the all fours position can be a key way to find maximum pleasure. It is an easy and guaranteed way to hit your g-spot while also reaching your clitoris for a bit of double stimulation.
Sitting
Whether on a chair, sofa, or bed, sit in an upright position with your legs slightly bent and sit on your dildo. This will help you to experience a truly deep filled sensation. Not only is it easy to reach your g-spot while sitting but it can be very erotic if your partner likes to watch you masturbate.
Using a Suction Cup
One reason why suction cup dildos are so ideal is because they allow you to experiment with positions such as stand up doggy style, riding on a chair, shower wall, riding on the floor or against the wall.
Experiment and See What You Like
At the end of the day, you’ll need to take some time to experiment with your dildo and find out what you like. Try different types of dildos, different positions, and even thrusting styles. Odds are, you’ll find how to use a dildo for maximum pleasure in no time.
