Love is difficult to understand. You simply canít make somebody fall in love with you. At the same time, you canít make yourself love someone else.
I mean, think about a close guy friend youíve might have had for a long time. It isnít possible to flick some sort of switch in your head and force yourself to feel some sort of attraction for him that simply isnít there.
If attraction doesnít exist, then it doesnít exist. You canít force it. Just like how you canít force your ex boyfriend to fall in love with you again.
If getting people to love each other were as simple as this, everyone would be happy. Unfortunately, this isnít the case.
So what can you do to make your ex boyfriend fall madly in love with you again? Well, to be honest, nothing is 100% certain, but there are a few things that will dramatically increase your chances of getting him back.
The first thing youíll read in many of these articles is employing a no communication period with your ex. Why? Chances are after he dumped you, you started pining for him. Texting him. Drowning him in ďI miss youísĒ and ďDonít leave meís.Ē By ceasing communication, you will send a message that you arenít desperate for his attention anymore. Once he realizes this, heíll be the one chasing you instead. Itís psychologically proven to work!
Second, youíll want to move on with your life and start dating other men. I donít mean sleep with as many men as you can, but you need to start dating again. You need to do this for a few reasons. First, it will increase your confidenceÖ and this is very sexy. Second, itís fun! Dating is a pleasurable experience, even if your date isnít the most interesting person in the world. And finally, by dating you around, you make your ex boyfriend jealous. Jealousy is a huge factor when creating attraction.
Finally, youíll want to re-invent yourself. That means you need to go out and enjoy life more than you normally would. Go surfing, skydiving, bungee jumping, or anything that you would find exhilarating. This is important because when your ex sees that youíre enjoying life, heíll rethink his decision to leave you. Also, youíll want to reinvent yourself physically as wellÖ yes, that means you should probably get a makeover! Men are extremely visual, which you can work to your advantage. So go out and splurge on that new dress!
If you do these 3 steps properly, you will be well on your way to making your ex boyfriend fall in love with you againÖ but this isnít the whole story.
In fact, you can employ several psychological tactics that will almost make getting your ex boyfriend back more than 90% certain. Although, I am not qualified to give you enough details for this since these secrets are so controversial.